Tom, you are a good man! I see you, I respect you. You will always have a relationship with Clara.

For my husband and all he does to support everyone. I love you. I appreciate you. I respect you. I hear you. I support your every dream. You are strong and stable and kind. I am blessed to have you as my friend. I love you Tom.  You will always have a relationship with your daughter Clara.  I choose to never take her away from you.  I choose to teach Clara to respect and honor you.  You are not her paycheck.  You are not endured to us.
You are free to love your daughter, Clara, and she is free to love you in return.  You will not hear her say to you, "you have to pay me $500.00/mo. hahahaha",  Or  "its about time you pay me what I am entitled to hahahaha". 
NEVER! will you hear our daughter speak to you this way!
You are free to have and develop a relationship with your daughter Clara as you see fit.   I choose not to alienate your daughter, Clara, from you.  There will be no emothional games, no emotional blackmail, no psychological terrorism, no blame shifting.  I chose to not treat you this way or parent our daughter, Clara, this way, you have my word...Peace...BigMamaBlaze

Hello Again...

It is the holidays, so busy, busy, busy.  I would like to say Merry Christmas and Happy New year to all of my potentail readers.  :)  I will be back to diagraming the state of Oregon and the Services associated with Family Law courts sometime after Christmas.  I am enjoying my beautiful children at the moment, and will be giving them my undivided attention.  Wishing you all well.  Here's to the Children, it's all about you. This is the future of our first nations singers, very cute...Peace...BigMamaBlaze

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It's all about the children

My blog, my opinion.  I have received very heated feedback on my blog posts.  I am in the process of editing and correcting punctuation errors.  I also am condensing as much information in each blog that is factual and verifiable.  I have stated the my only request of the reader is the content of my blog may be very objectionable to some.  I am not writing to please anyone.  I am writing to create an information open format.  An open forum for freedom of expression is an open invitation.  I will post the comment of the reader who is the perfect example of the immaturity I ask stay away.  You will not like what I write.  This is a blog written specifically by an author admittedly an avid father's rights movement supporter.  This should indicate immediately that the content will be in support of banishing the discrimination of fathers losing their child(ren) under the law of family courts.  It is not a pleasant topic for people who may have misused this system to do this very thing.  I will post the comments, as I promised a open forum blog.  I do hope that my desire not to be bashed be honored from now on.  I am grateful for the freedom I have to write and the freedom the reader has to respond. 
I hope that this does not become another venue for hater to attack me or anyone else.  I speak in terms that are descriptive of the experiences I have witnessed men throughout my life, and of the information I have learned researching this subject.  The longer I research the more there is to research.  Most striking to me is the global aspect of this movement.  This is not a personal battle.  This is a raising of consciousness.  Peace...BigMamaBlaze


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